Approach

A Philosophy That Respects Individual Differences

My clinical approach is based on certain fundamental principles:
A Broad View of Normality
 A person can be different without being abnormal. Problems exist on a spectrum, ranging from mild to problematic to abnormal. It is possible to suffer from significant personal problems without being diagnosed with a serious psychiatric disorder.

Psychiatric Diagnosis and the Use of Medication
 I am conservative about diagnosis and referrals for medication use. In order for me to make a psychiatric diagnosis, the symptoms have to be extensive and severe, and there must be significant impairment of functioning and relationships.

Goodness of Fit
 This term refers to the level of compatibility between individuals, or between a person and his/her environment. A good fit can improve any relationship, however, it is in the parent-child relationship that Goodness of Fit is most important. The way a child is viewed can vary greatly with  the circumstances.

The Importance of Parenting
 To be an effective parent does not require a detailed knowledge of child development or an extensive library of sometimes-contradictory books on childhood problems. To be an effective parent you primarily need to understand and accept your child for the person he/she truly is and to do your best to adapt your parenting style to the temperament and capabilities of your child.

The Importance of Self -Image
 An integral focus in treatment is on the child's and family’s strengths because a feeling of success enhances one’s self-esteem. Conversely, while believing that vulnerabilities should be addressed, I discourage excessive focus on areas of lesser competence. Once again, temperament and Goodness of Fit play a key role in determining the self-image of a child.